Wednesday

I'm all for this movie to be made!

FRIENDS: THE MOVIE

Can you imagine???
I would be in love all over again with these characters!
This EW issue is turning out to be a great one to blog about!

(See last two posts: Castle and HUGE)

Sofia


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HUGE

Not sure how I feel about this show?
How about you?
Have you seen the previews?
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I wish I could go...

To this year's Comic Con in San Diego!
CASTLE WILL BE THERE!

And I just saw it's on tonight! I absolutely love that show!!! :)

That's all!

X,
Sofia
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Sunday

Baby showers, birthdays, weddings and NKOTB

So much to update it's ridiculous!
Where to begin....


Well on my back situation it is feeling better but every now and again I feel pain like I wanna rip my back apart. But then other days I'm fine. Different positions make it better/worse so that's that. I'll be taking advil for awhile now... :\

Anyway...


We've had some birthdays, weddings, and concerts pass and I know I have tons of pics but don't really feel like uploading them all right now. I'll put some up and then I'll update later. I'll start off with the wedding...

Andrea Unrath (Montalbano) & Patrick Unrath Wedding
I went to my friend Andrea's wedding down in Philly the weekend my back got progressively worse. I had to go though because I was looking forward to it for a really long time. I didn't wanna disappoint her in not going either. Here are some pics:





Will do some more events later....

Friday

Quote from "A Woman of No Importance"

"Men always want to be a woman's first love. That is their clumsy vanity. We women have a more subtle instinct about things. What we like is to be a man's last romance."

Perfectly stated Oscar Wilde.

xo,
Sofia
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Married but living apart?

What do you think: you get married, love one another but you live apart? Just read an article in my April issue of Oprah mag (pg. 149) that this couple states they got married but live in two different houses. They are HAPPY with this arrangement.

And I propose a question: can you live apart AND still be HAPPILY married and live happily ever after?

In Sex and the City (SATC) 2, Carrie proposed having 2 days 'off' for herself to finish writing her column at her old apartment, and for Big to do the same and just do his thing for 2 days. And when Big agreed and proposed to do this every week she freaked! She thought he wanted to be free of her but she was the one who proposed the idea first. . .?!?

And when I went to see the movie for the 2nd time with my one married friend and my friend who has a boyfriend (they have been on-off for a very long time without living together) they were appalled! They couldn't believe that Carrie could want 2 days a week away from her husband whom she desperately has been longing for for 10+ years!

Plus, they couldn't get around the idea that Carrie kept her apartment for the days when people needed to get away like Charlotte who needed a break from her 2 little screaming, attention needing girls.

Do you agree with my friends who think needing time off from your husband/family/kids is a bad idea or is it ok to not see your husband/significant other/family for awhile (few hrs or days)?

It makes sense what my friends feel that it is wrong to not wanna be with ur family all the time. But don't you think you would need some time away from ur significant other to just be by yourself and think? Or is it just selfish of oneself to be thinking that way because at one time being single you were complaining of being alone and needing to be with someone?

It's a weird and complicated science of marriage that I don't quiet get.

At this point in my life I wish I lived with kev so I can see him and be with him every day. But at the same time I enjoy my 'spare' time away from him so we can each have time for ourselves. I hear so many 'horror' stories from couples that once they live together they start hating each other and fight and break up...

So what's the answer?

Stay single, feel alone from time to time, but love the fact that you have independence and not have to worry about 'taking care of someone else'?

Or be with someone, live with them, get used to their quirks, and have someone to love, someone who loves you back, and see them every day?

I guess it depends on what time of personality you have right? ... Or wrong?

Let me know what you think!

X,
Sofia
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Soccer - oh my!

It's so funny to watch my dad watching the world cup right now. It's the equivalent to watching a 4 year old watch cartoons. Haha. He's intently watching without saying much when I ask him what just happened or anything else. :)

It's U.S.A. vs Slovania and USA is losing 2-1. Yikes!
And they just missed a goal right now!
It's the second half and unless it's pure luck, doesn't look good for our country right now. :/

But they can surprise me if they'd like!

And my dad will continue to watch... Just like a little kid watching his morning cartoons... :)

Later...

X,
Sofia
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Thursday

Gym and back problems

So Kev and I will be going to the gym tonight around 7p and it is the first time we will be working out together. I am hoping we stick to this semi-routine that we have thought up. We are planning on going at least 3x during the week and at least once during the weekend.
I wanna lose weight, start running, and get toned.
Kev wants to lose weight... and I don't think anything else.
We joined Gold's Gym and hopefully it is worth the $$. We get free classes too so we'll see how that goes.
I wanna do at least one class every 2 weeks and hope to convince Kev to join in at least once a month!
haha

We'll see how that goes!

But I hope that by the time July 25 comes along I will look and feel a hell of a lot healthier than I do now. We leave for Disney on that day and I am planning on wearing a lot of tank tops and shorts/capris (which I need to buy more of come to think of it...) and wear my bathing suit as well and not look like a giant woman.

Speaking of health though, I did something to my back last friday which is not going away so easily this time around. I did it once before but this time it just hurts a lot more. Went to the doctor, I'm on sick time from work (which I have yet to finish my orientation for crying out loud!!!), I have been popping advil every 4-6 hours, and I just got a prescription for a muscle relaxant from my doc that hopefully will help!
We'll see how it goes!

I have things to do over the weekend and I really hope my back does not give out on me! I need to exercise and gain my strength back so I can go back to my every day things. I hate being "sick" or "out of comission". I love not having nothing to do but on my own time. But this whole having to rest and not do anything stuff coming from a doctor is no fun...

And it is no fun to sit here like this because my back is hurting even more when I sit so I gotta go!

Until next time... (whenever that might be.... haha... jk.)

xox,

Friday

Enjoying...

..A grape sno cone.
At work.
Gettin' pumped for the carnival Kev and I will be going to tonight!
Yay!

That is all.

=)

Thanks for reading!

A penny for your thou - comments?

xo,
Sofia
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